A difficult doctor story

There is a doctor i am handling who was offended and thought that i was not amenable with his work. Let's establish here that he made a petty mistake and since he is a colleague i must tell him what is correct based on policies. But if you read my text, it was assertive but gracious, almost bordering on pleading/submissiveness.



His last text to me is manipulative, making me feel that if i am not ok with his work, just remove him as my doctor but i truly need him to be part of my roster, as in really need him. Whatever. Seriously Doc, i expected much better from you. i think i deserve a better reply than what you gave. i dont care about your education. Respect matters more to me, to everyone. In the bigger picture, we are all equals, you just studied longer than me but your license does not give you authority to manipulate people nor make me feel bad like this, like im a puny worm begging for your wonderful assistance. Freaking whatever.

Thankfully i just attended comm. training and i still replied to him that i need the corrections done, told him why i need that done because of policy (and sheer, simple logic). I stood my ground. I need to be assertive bec. I dont want to be the one breaking policies. Wanted to call him to clarify but, wait, what do we have here? you just wouldnt pick up would you? How difficult could it be to please a diva.

Clearly this does not raise my perception of doctors :( im sorry, i know of doctors who are very kind, generous and fair: two of them are my bosses. But there are really doctors i've worked with who have just lowered and scarred my perception of doctors in general. Buti sana kung tama sya. Is it because of the presumed 'higher level of education'? i sincerely would like to try to understand.

To be fair, I guess, professionals from all fields have their share of rotten tomatoes.

Sincerely, Flor

Turn Around, Bright Eyes

Geeky flowchart of an awesome song...

This was part of a WORK LIFE BALANCE initiative in the office wherein one department sends us weekly geeky/awesome quizzes for a chance of gaining points for your department.

The question for this photo was :

The flowchart above shows the lyrical flow of Bonnie Tyler's biggest hit which topped the UK singles chart in March of 1983. Complete the flowchart by supplying and enumerating all five (5) missing phrases in the lyrics, denoted by the numbered rectangles in yellow.

Omg, I was super laughing out loud when I saw this and I heard people even singing while solving this particular (awesome) question. it's so funny when you get to hear 'em. so I hope if you have time, give me the answer as a comment. ANd as a prize, well.............., you'll be able to jog your memory, less chances of Alzheimers, and well, you'll gain extra bragging rights. hahaha.

Hope you have a good day!

Sincerely, Flor

P.S. You say that I’m the bad breathe but who is Dennis want to kissed?

You don't wanna mess with THE SEXIEST GIRL OF D.M.

I know luma na'to, but I find it so freakin funny :)

have a good day!
Flor

To the Bonifacio Global City Bus Handlers

There are just not enough buses, okay!!!!??? 

i think that there is a huge problem when I don't even have to wait 5 minutes before I get to ride a bus in a disorganized bus stop like in Coastal Road/ Mia Road. However, I wait 30 (freakin) minutes and become late in an extremely, rigidly organized Bus Station like in BGC. Something's just so wrong. You have to fix it. A lot of people who have to ride your bus to go to work are all so disgruntled.

Smiling on the Left.. No MORE...

This is an update to my previous post: Smiling on the left... but... still smiling

(This is being written on March 16, 2012, for the benefit of those commenters who would like to know more about how I got over Bell's Palsy)

Hello there!
After the previous post was written, it has been more than a year now since Bell's Palsy injured/affected/attacked my facial nerve. All I can say is, I'm one of those people who are so lucky to have recovered so quickly. Within a month from the first time we went to the neurologist, almost all visible symptoms are gone. I am the only person who can recognize the non symmetric parts of my face of course since Im the one most familiar with it. I can smile normally, move my ears, nostrils but my eyes don't close easily. But I guess the smile and the eyes were the last to  go back to normal.

Okay so after the first visit to the neuro, we went for a lab test. Wherein they (inflict) electrical pulses via a prong on your face at varying degrees of (pain!). This is so they can assess the degree of damage on the facial nerve.

On (probably) day 14, we went to the neuro for a 2nd visit,. Prior to that, my mom and I massaged my face, followed the instructions to avoid salty food and did my best to avoid therapy because we knew that that would be expensive. I also bought eye drops for when the eye becomes dry because it cannot close without assistance. On this visit, the doctor gave me the test result which was quite good but still I needed to go to therapy 6 times (once weekly) and drink the medication she has given and continue with the facial exercises. There are so many if you search in google but i used this because it's very visual and step by step: http://www.cuh.org.uk/resources/pdf/patient_information_leaflets/PIN1435_exercises_for_facial_weakness.pdf

I videotaped myself while doing these exercises each day but they are so embarassing so I cannot post them. But im pretty sure that it would be helpful for those patients who are suffering from bell's palsy to be able to see their progress.

So I came to the hospital for therapy which consists of infrared heat/light being directed at your face, some facial massages (using fingertips) by the friendly therapist and also they will (inflict) some electric current like pulses via some prongs on the affected side of the face.This is the part I hate so much, because I get easily surprised and it's a little painful. It's like the nerves become tender again. Also, it's so similar to the painful lab test i got earlier, only milder and so again I become reminded of that day.. which I hate. In all fairness, the other aspects of the therapy are like a trip to the spa, hehe. Also, i truly commend University of Perpetual Help Hospital in Las Pinas because they are so advanced that they have both a NeuroScience department and a rehabilitation department. Also bec it felt like going to a spa hahaha. Anyway, they will teach you how to massage your face so you may be able to do this at home.

After the third therapy session (once weekly basis), i stopped going. My face I felt was as normal as it could be. Also an upside to all this was that there were LESS wrinkles and LESS drooping on the bell's palsy side compared to the unaffected side. Talk about free "botox".

I continued taking vitamins for a while until i also stopped i think at least 3 weeks prematurely than was recommended. I think everythin in my face is normal now and I am back to my old self... I am whole now.. I can smile!

Oh another thing, after the first visit to the neuro, I asked our bishop to give me a blessing. Also, I think this miracle of easy recovery wouldn't have happened if not for that and the prayers.

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This happened in January. On March 2011, a friend came to our house borrowing the infrared light my father bought me. He also had Bell's Palsy, probably from stress because he just came back from a religious mission and I think one of the biggest progenitors was that he cannot find a job, here, now, in the real world... Stress was still the cause. Sad for him, because it took so much longer for him to recover and he lost his confidence in himself because of the disease.

So i remembered how I felt when i had it. It's true you will lose confidence, you cannot show your face or talk without looking a little weird. It is a serious disease, luckily we can recover from it. The best thing to do is to pray, show a happy disposition, have hope and faith. This will heal. I'm sharing my story for those afflicted to know about this feeling of hope. Also so that we'll know that we should always be watchful and not let our problems, stress and unhealthy sleeping habits get the best of us. We only have one body given to us. We must take care of it.

Have a good day everyone!

Currently at 135 lbs (06/18/2011)

Goal : reach 120lbs in 2 months

Hi Blog,

As much as I don't want to make this into a weight loss diary/ journal, I have now lost around 3 pounds since starting gym 4 weeks ago. I know this is still quite little when I know I could've lost more. But dieting is my real enemy here. There was one time, I ate a whole pack of cookies and Nagaraya when I could never finish those myself before when I didn't go to the gym. Workouts make me more hungry.

But I've already given up some things. Like soda, and Milo at night. I've trained myself not to crave for soda. When eating out, I ask for water instead of any other drinks offered. I've also become more cautious since even fruit drinks/juices when bought outside are more sugary than healthy.

And Milo..., I love Milo! But now I drink and savor it in the morning and have stopped drinking at night. It's one thing I probably can never give up.

My exercise regimen consists of working out at the gym around 2 to 3 times a week. I have started looking forward to it since I see myself becoming stronger in a sense I can do more sit-ups and more numbers of repetitive machine workouts. I also love using Cardio equipment especially the elliptical. Well so there I hope I can lose a lot of weight and hope that you can share with me your miraculous weight loss stories cause I badly need a miracle right now :)

Have a good day friends!

Traffic !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Talagang minsan sobrang nakakaasar bumiyahe dito sa Maynila. 6:30 out sa office, 9:30 na nakarating sa bahay! Talo ko pa ang lumuwas, eh Metro Manila lang naman ang iniikot ko. Hay nako! Simulan nyo na ang the Fort Bus. "Less Stress" daw ang motto nila, pero dapat may statement sa ilalim na, "Less Stress... During non-rush hours... otherwise, megastress!" To think na, pumipila yung mga tao, bumababa lang sa mga designated bus stops, pero mas mahirap! Bakit parang mas madali pang makipagsikuhan sa Coastal bus stop area going to Edsa kung saan walang sistema sa pagpila kaysa sa the Fort Bus Station na disciplinado ang sistema. Wahhh, only in the Philippines! Truly, it defies reason.

Isa pa yang FX station sa Makati. Talaga namang walang mas reasonableng dapat sakyan kung hindi ang mga vans nila na dederetso sa lugar nyo. Pero grabe, kung magmahal, limang piso agad. Akala mo naman may nagimprove, halos maloka pa rin ako sa kakahintay ng FX. Shems, iuwi nyo na kami, please!

Basta talagang grabeng grabe ang traffic dito sa Maynila. Hindi naman ako nag-O.T. pero parang sana nag-OT na lang ako. Kumita pa sana. Alam nyo pag traffic nagiging masungit ang mga nasa paligid ko o kasama sa pila. Nakakunot mga noo, nagtsk-tsk sila, tapos umiikot yung mga mata parang may invisible na kaaway. Hahaha. Ewan, kakaiba ang epekto ng traffic sa mga tao. 

Kanina lang sa van, nakatulog ka na't lahat pagkagising mo halfway ka pa lang. Close na nga kami nung mga pasahero e. Sa tagal ng stay namin dun, rinding -rindi na kami dun sa usapan ng driver at ng mga kakosa nya sa walkie-talkie. Masakit na yung pwet at pati mga tuhod stiff na kasi matagal na naka-bend. Inis na inis na rin ako sa magboyfriend na nag pi-PDA sa harap ko.  Hay... inis na inis na nga ang beauty ko, iniinggit nyo pa!

Pasok sa eksena ang favorite motto ko -- "Dadaloy din ang ginhawa". Patay na, may digging ang Maynilad! Grabe, patong patong na, halos dalawang lane na lang ang dinadaanan ng mga sasakyan. Dagdag pa sa traffic! Ganito rin ba sa inyo?

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Sana may magawa ang MMDA tungkol sa traffic sa Maynila, although kung ako rin ang taga-MMDA, hindi ko rin alam kung pano. Grabe sakit sa ulo yung nata-trap ka everyday sa paghintay na makauwi ka na, sobrang hirap sa pagcommute, nako! Kung araw araw ganito nakakapagod rin. Ano, magiimplement na naman sila ng mga pahirap na rules tulad ng number coding sa public buses? Nako, isip naman kayo ng mga rules na hindi general commuting public ang nahihirapan. Kita mo nga ngayon, matraffic pa rin naman ah.

O sige na masyadong napahaba na 'tong sinulat ko. Naglalabas lang naman ako actually ng sama ng loob sa naranasan ko today.

Okay good night and good luck.

Baclaran Day tomorrow.

Yours sincerely, Flor.